{"id":5882,"date":"2021-11-22T14:01:07","date_gmt":"2021-11-22T14:01:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wendyzhou.se\/blog\/?p=5882"},"modified":"2026-05-25T09:51:08","modified_gmt":"2026-05-25T09:51:08","slug":"setting-unrealistic-goals-for-fun-dreamlining","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendyzhou.se\/blog\/setting-unrealistic-goals-for-fun-dreamlining\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Set Unrealistic Goals For Fun? Dreamlining"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Dreamlining is a technique for goal-setting and lifestyle design introduced in the book “The 4-Hour Work Week” by Timothy Ferris. You can use dreamlining to outline your ideal lifestyle<\/em> and turn it into systematic steps that you can perform. It’s also a concept that focuses on goals you find exciting and unrealistic, which makes it so much more fun when you reach them!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Buy The 4-Hour Work Week here ><\/strong><\/a>\u00a0(This is an Amazon\u00a0affiliate<\/a>\u00a0link.)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can read more about how-to-do Dreamlining here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why Set Unrealistic Goals?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

What I enjoy most about the concept of dreamlining is its emphasis on\u00a0setting goals\u00a0we think are “unrealistic”. It’s an unusual piece of advice. Most productivity and goal-setting advice tells us not to set unrealistic goals, but instead to keep them small, break them down, and make them realistic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Timothy Ferris’s argument against setting realistic goals is that realistic goals just aren’t fun<\/em>, exciting, or motivating enough. If the goal is too boring and realistic, then it won’t be enticing enough for us to put in the effort and do the hard work that’s needed. However, if a goal is unrealistic, huge, and makes us thrilled, we’ll be motivated just by thinking about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In my experience, he’s right! Whenever I set my goals, I start with a “realistic” goal, then add\u00a0a little\u00a0more to it. I make it just a bit more unrealistic and exciting than it was before. And that gives me enough of an extra kick of excitement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Related: <\/strong>Identity-Based Habits: Change Your Identity, Change Your Outcome<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Is the opposite of Happiness Boredom?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The existential vaccum manifests itself mainly in a state of boredom.<\/p>\nViktor Frankl, Auschwitz survivor and founder of Logotherapy, Man’s Search for Meaning<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Another theory of his that I’m fascinated by is that the opposite of happiness isn’t sadness but boredom. And I think he may have a point here. When I think back on the happiest moments of my life, most of them are filled with excitement. The thrill of new love, doing things you’re not really supposed to, visiting a new city and traveling, experiencing something refreshing, having something unexpected happen, or feeling anticipation before<\/em> something you’ve been waiting for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, there are theories opposing this as well. If I remember correctly, I read that in Japan, for example, it’s much more common to value a harmonious, tranquil life than one filled with excitement (which is a Western modern ideal). And as someone who meditates a lot and who is a big fan of Eckhart Tolle and Alan Watts, I do see a point in that as well. I’ve been feeling much happier lately after\u00a0practicing daily gratitude\u00a0and focusing on being present.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In addition, when I think about periods of my life when I’ve been very bored and without direction, I know I haven’t felt very happy. I’ve even felt the opposite; I’ve felt a sense of anguish, and like I’m crawling in my own skin. This feeling has gone away when I’ve either practiced being fully in the present moment\u00a0or\u00a0<\/em>set new challenges and goals for myself to pursue<\/span> for fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So perhaps the key to happiness is living a life that balances fulfillment and gratitude for what we have, while embracing the excitement of having dreams and ideals. If we only<\/em> ever chase excitement, then perhaps we’ll never truly be grateful in the present. And if we allow ourselves to feel fully fulfilled in the now, it may leave us inactive and cause us to miss out on many extraordinary life experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although I’m sure that the answer to a happy life has to be tailored to our personal dreams and values. This again leads back to setting personal goals and perhaps trying dreamlining.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Thanks for reading!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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